As I look at it, death is a natural part of life, and not something that evokes good feelings. Choosing an urn is a depressing task because it
confirms the finality of a person's life. Working with Julia on creating an urn actually was a very positive, uplifting experience. It was exciting to
be involved in the process. . I am forever grateful to have connected with Julia. As I told her, life gave me lemons and she turned it into lemonade.